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The dilemmas are real, and our decisions cut deep. As medical professionals, we struggle to integrate our Catholic values into the practice of medicine. Here is just a sampling of the moral struggles confronted by physicians every day:
Many physicians are inundated by requests for birth control prescriptions. Countless young women go to the doctor specifically for that reason, being quite upfront that they want the pills to avoid pregnancy and to “just have fun.” Many medical professionals now know that if they say no, their healthcare organization might discipline them.
Others are confronted by patients wanting abortions. “It’s just not the right time,” one young lady told me. “I really can’t afford this,” or “I’m still in school,” are other excuses I have heard. But they are looking to you to get that abortion done. How do you discuss this without alienating our frightened young patient, while keeping to your Catholic values?
Another common situation involves a teenager questioning their sexual identity. I’ve heard it before: A young man tells me, “I think I’m gender fluid, but maybe I’m a girl after all. I’m not sure, so I’d like to try some hormones just to see how I feel.” In just a few questions, you realize many of his friends are doing the same, supporting each other as they explore their identities. Lecturing teenagers doesn’t help, and even if you say no, he will probably get them elsewhere. What would you say to this confused young person?
These scenarios are not rare; they are daily realities faced by physicians and medical professionals worldwide. Values once regarded as unwavering pillars of society are increasingly seen as fluid, even disposable. In the name of seeking happiness, too many chase fleeting pleasures without considering the long-term consequences or the core values that truly sustain us.
The Catholic Medical Association wholeheartedly upholds traditional Catholic values, reminding us that the teachings of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ are the foundation of our moral compass. These values offer not just guidance but a source of unwavering support, comfort, and hope. Embracing them paves the way for genuine happiness and lasting peace through a profound, eternal relationship with God. By aligning ourselves with these timeless principles, we are choosing a path that leads to true fulfillment and spiritual salvation.
The Catholic Medical Association plays a vital role by offering support and resources to medical professionals who identify with the Catholic faith, as well as providing guidance to patients navigating complex healthcare concerns.
After a long hiatus, the Connecticut Guild of the Catholic Medical Association has returned. The St. Margaret Guild has new leadership and new members, bringing energy and drive to provide comfort for those who care for the sick, confused, and lost. They are eager to offer educational resources to patients who inquire about Catholic values and their importance, as well as to guide healthcare professionals in engaging in meaningful discussions about these timely and vital topics.
The St. Margaret Guild meets every Sunday night for prayer and fellowship on Zoom. We have quarterly in-person meetings and monthly Zoom gatherings. We enjoy wonderful fellowship and discussion because we know we are not alone as Catholic healthcare professionals. We find support, prayers, and faith. If you are a Catholic medical professional of any kind or have retired from the healthcare field and would like to join us, please email kolkermd@att.net. There is no fee to join our local guild.
By Dr. Christopher Kolker, MD.
Dr. Kolker is a Knight and communicant of the Cathedral of Saint Patrick in Norwich, and a family medicine physician in Westbrook with over 20 years of experience.